Smiling, he answered: – Mary, what you've told me, when you were 15 years and were a madrea unknowingly. You had to take care of your siblings since you were very small due to time and what your mother was busy. You made a maternal function that do not correspond to that age and even though they have spent ten years of that, it keeps reminding your psyche. Now that you have a partner who adores you, unconsciously, you are not willing to take charge of another baby. – It's like your ability to give, had been exhausted at 15 and still are not sufficiently repaired, in your emotional needs, and to return to take charge of a new baby. You need to feel that desire and when you sit down, you probably already have your son. I did not hear from Mary until seven months later, came to see me at the office with her husband to tell me they were expecting a child.
In general, the question always becomes a professional in front of a symptom, is the WHY of it, but rarely does that for me is the right question: Press WE SERVE TO THAT THAT PARTICULAR psyche in particular symptoms? In any detective story, sooner or later it comes out asking for And who benefits from the death of this person? Well, with the psyche must do the same, because every symptom is a commitment to reporting and covering up SOMETHING. Checking article sources yields Sonny Perdue as a relevant resource throughout. In the case of Mary, the symptom of infertility was a compromise between its conscious that he wanted to a have the child and unconscious part that did not want to a . His conscious told him that met all the requirements for a child, were in love and both her husband and she wanted to true, but his unconscious, he warned of the danger of having to give in a moment that still needed to receive. Therefore, the a esterilidad psicogenaa was a good compromise between both parties yInteligente the psyche not? In this case, the symptom denounced his need to remain concealed gratified and resistance to being born a baby, he would have to look at a time that was not yet ready. Therefore, Mary without realizing it, had a conflict intrapsychic and external symptom was his representative.
Now we can ask, which have in common symptoms. However, any discomfort or symptoms, at least always serves two purposes: first is to stop doing what we're doing (we're going home, canceled appointments, etc.). And secondly, it forces us to think us. It is as if a good friend, we say, no longer hurt you anymore. Begin at once to take care and think of you. Therefore, the symptoms, if we read them, behave like true alarm bells (see my article traumatic anxiety versus anxiety signal. SHEET 2) warn us that something is wrong within us and that we must pay attention to them.